Listen very closely, and listen well. When a legal document, an instrument of protection, a stay away order is issued and put in place against you, and the document states:
“Now, therefore, it is hereby ordered that respondent observe the following conditions of behavior,”
and said document clearly calls out three specific actions you are not to carry out, two of them being:
“ Refrain from communication or any other contact by mail, telephone, e-mail, voice-mail or other electronic or any other means with petitioner;
 Observe such other conditions as are necessary to further the purposes of protection: respondent to have no third party contact with petitioner by mail, telephone, e-mail, voice-mail, or other electronic means”
after said document first provided fair and conspicuous notice that
“Your willful failure to obey this order may subject you to mandatory arrest and criminal prosecution….CRIMINAL CONTEMPT….CONTEMPT OF COURT…”
and you willingly and blatantly disregard condition  which clearly prohibits ANY third party contact of ANY kind, you should have considered the fact that perhaps this girl right here has had enough of you pushing her around. You should have taken into due consideration that she quite possibly has decided that since she let you get away the first time with no arrest and you didn’t have to admit guilt if you didn’t contest the order, yet you go ahead and test the waters…. perhaps you should have thought twice about the consequences. You should have taken into consideration there are photographs. You should have entertained the possibility that this girl, who was once just a devastated shell when she left, might very well now have a newfound strength that you cannot possibly imagine.
So, when you decided to have a taxi cab driver go to my dad’s former place of work today and leave this memento box of old family photos, and the cab driver says to my father’s former boss, “This is from Kevin. It’s for Amy,” it just might have been a poor decision on your part. For this girl knows when you are playing games. You could have done this months ago, but you waited for the calm. You waited until you thought I would have blinders on, that I would forget how vengeful you are, and you thought I would be so happy to have it back that I would overlook this violation. And further, this girl does not want or need the reason why.
All you need to know is I got your “message” tonight. Tomorrow, when I go to the police department and file a report and then file to have you cited for a violation of condition , you will get mine.
It does not matter to me if you think this is an over-reaction to a seemingly good deed that really isn’t. What matters is that it has crossed MY line. And the most fantastic part about this is you can’t tell me where that line is anymore.
And the advocate whom I already consulted agrees. I won’t give you an opportunity to do something to cause me harm the next time you violate the order.